Why Mindset Matters
Eslana Lower is an author, speaker, resilience mindset coach, nurse, midwife and mother of 4 who is also navigating life following the tragic loss of her teenage daughter Rylee to suicide because of bullying.
Why Mindset Matters is the podcast that explores how resilience, gratitude, and intentional thinking can transform even the most challenging seasons of life. Each episode offers raw conversations, empowering tools, and real-life stories to help you shift your perspective and reclaim your power.
This podcast is for you if you’ve ever asked yourself…
- How do I survive the heartbreak of a breakup or betrayal?
- How do I keep going after the death of someone I love?
- Is it possible to live and grieve at the same time?
- Will I ever feel happiness again after so much loss?
- How can I begin to heal when everything feels broken?
- What can I do to strengthen my mental and emotional wellbeing?
- How do I build resilience for the inevitable challenges life brings?
- What does happiness really mean—and how do I find it for myself?
- How do I create a life that feels meaningful and aligned?
- Can I truly manifest the life, love, and peace I long for?
- How do I call in the kind of relationship I truly deserve?
- What steps can I take to live the life I know I’m meant for?
Trigger Warning: This podcast contains discussions about suicide and may include occasional strong language. Listener discretion is advised, especially for those who may find these topics distressing.
Why Mindset Matters
Speak Life: Rewriting Self-Talk & The Power of Genuine Compliments
Episode 23: Speak Life: Rewriting Self-Talk & The Power of Genuine Compliments
In this season finale of Why Mindset Matters, I’m reflecting on the incredible power of words — the ones we speak to ourselves and the ones we share with others. For so long, I lived inside negative self-talk and limiting narratives that kept me small. But through grief, healing, and growth, I’ve learned that when we rewrite those stories and choose to speak life, we open the door to transformation. Genuine compliments, authentic connections, and simple acts of kindness have not only shaped my healing but also made me a magnet for the right people — the ones who lift me, support me, and help me grow as an individual, a business owner, and an entrepreneur.
As I step into a reset over the next couple of weeks and prepare to publish my book in the coming months, I’m embracing the unknown of the next chapter with gratitude and excitement. I want to leave you with this: your words matter more than you know. Speak life into yourself and into others — because the way you talk to yourself shapes your reality, and the way you uplift others can change theirs.
